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Re: Diary: A NolanFans Story
Posted: October 28th, 2019, 2:31 pm
by Nomis
pls don't feel bad about allstar getting banned vader
I wonder how he'll react when his ban over. He could, you know, decide not to come back himself and maybe start over with a new account. Then I wonder how long it'll take before we know it's his alt lol
Re: Diary: A NolanFans Story
Posted: October 28th, 2019, 2:33 pm
by Artemis
I'll post a long elaborate story/joke and if the alt account calls me "delusional" then we know it's him.
Re: Diary: A NolanFans Story
Posted: October 28th, 2019, 2:53 pm
by Panapaok
Let me clarify. Allstar is banned temporarily, not permanently. That was never really considered as an option, it was just Artemis who brought it up here in this thread. He replied in a very embarassing and inconsiderate way to Vader and he deserved to go for some time.
About permabans. IMHO it's a very delicate matter when it comes to 'veteran' members. Maybe this sounds elitist but let's face it, this is a dying community and if we start permabanning left and right, NF is done. I'm pretty sure Ruth agrees with me on that.
Based on my experience, the only veteran member who truly deserved to go -no questions asked- was RIFA, who literally turned insane and started harassing mods on social media outside of NF.
Having said that though, I do agree that Allstar has been walking on thin ice lately and patience is running low, not only on casual members but also on mods. Hopefully his time off will help, although he always seems to fall back on his usual habits. We'll see how it goes.
Re: Diary: A NolanFans Story
Posted: October 28th, 2019, 3:03 pm
by Ruth
I just want to make it know before things get out of hand:
Allstar has reached out to me via diff means than this place (thanks to Virgo), and we did have a talk. He's not asking for his ban to be lifted. He said he doesn't care about that. I don't want to bother Vader with this, knowing all of what had happened in his personal life and here too, as that would at least be insensitive and dumb of me, but since he joined in on this here - if somehow you do want to hear what Allstar had to say to me/Virgo - PM me.
As for everything else, I'm with Panapaok.
Re: Diary: A NolanFans Story
Posted: October 28th, 2019, 3:19 pm
by Law
how do I miss everything
Re: Diary: A NolanFans Story
Posted: October 28th, 2019, 3:21 pm
by Artemis
Law wrote: ↑October 28th, 2019, 3:19 pm
how do I miss everything
you have more of a life than us.
it's a good thing.
Re: Diary: A NolanFans Story
Posted: October 28th, 2019, 3:38 pm
by Vader182
For the record: the last time Allstar was banned I posted in this very thread a nicely packaged defense for the guy and how he has good intentions but ultimately gets in the way of himself. I suggested allowing him back, and if he fucks up badly again, permaban him. I defended him. He even DM'd me thanking me for defending him, and he promised he wouldn't backslide.
Well, as we all know, he did backslide. Quickly. His default setting is to sow seeds of discontent, constantly, with microaggressions and passive aggressive comments, then he hides before an "I didn't realize" shield every time. The thing is, I don't think he realizes. He is so accustomed to treating people like shit he's lost all awareness of that's how he treats other people.
I still don't want him permabanned over this incident. I agree with the above posts, they are fair. But, speaking for myself, he's been antagonizing me for weeks. Then, purposefully or not, said something unspeakably offensive. It was either premeditated or a symptom of a much deeper problem he can't correct. Either way, for me, he can get fucked for the foreseeable future. I can't promise I'll ever be cool with the guy. I thought we were friends.
Anybody can DM me here or on twitter or FB or whatever, you guys know I'm pretty easy going about reaching out regardless of the circumstances, shitty though this last week has been.
-Vader
Re: Diary: A NolanFans Story
Posted: October 28th, 2019, 3:53 pm
by Ruth
I’ll just drop what he said without adding anything further myself: (spoiler tagging bc i’m on mobile and it’s long)
Re: Diary: A NolanFans Story
Posted: October 28th, 2019, 3:58 pm
by Artemis
after reading that I feel kind of bad for dabbing on him but idk.
he's been so rude and awful to me for the past three years and just a real jerk that I don't know if I even care at this point anymore. He's made the same "idk how to read" excuses before. idk. it's not up to me anyway but I think it's pretty clear how I feel about this dude.
EDIT: about a month ago I even told Nomis that I was considering leaving the forum because of him. He just made me feel really really uncomfortable and I felt like I was walking on thin ice because I felt like I would bring out one of his famous temper tantrums without even knowing I activated it.
Re: Diary: A NolanFans Story
Posted: October 28th, 2019, 4:00 pm
by Vader182
Ruth wrote: ↑October 28th, 2019, 3:53 pm
I’ll just drop what he said without adding anything further myself: (spoiler tagging bc i’m on mobile and it’s long)
But, speaking for myself, he's been antagonizing me for weeks. Then, purposefully or not, said something unspeakably offensive. It was either premeditated or a symptom of a much deeper problem he can't correct.
-Vader
PS, he also literally RT'd my Irishman thread on Twitter which includes the same post. I don't really care whether he saw or or not. It doesn't change anything. But I wouldn't take what he's saying purely at face value.
-Vader