so after i asked to her to dinner and she said yeah lemme check my schedule and i'll text you back ASAP. so i'm like cool. i asked her what kind of food she liked to which she left me on "read"
then i found out sunday i might be leaving earlier than expected so i texted her being like hey when you can hmu with that schedule but at your leisure
no answer
so i sent her a message on like wednesday being like
are you a really bad texter or are you not in. like i'm not upset but i am mondo befuddled
no response. so i'm like okay guess i'm not hearing back
she texted me today being like hay sorry was working 6 days a week i'm. a miserable texter also dealing with a death in the family
and i was like oh. shit damn sorry
but she's salty as heck i can tell
so oooops. feeling like a prick. guess i'll be more patient next time. but in my defense i leave in 9 days so there is a slight urgency
Imho you shouldn't really feel bad. You sent two messages over a few days checking to see if she was interested and then quit when it seemed like she wasn't. Even when I'm struggling with some bad stuff, it doesn't take me 5 days to respond to a message. Working 6 days a week, death in the family, "miserable texter" are all probably just excuses. If she wanted to text you, she would have. She shouldn't be salty over it and you shouldn't feel guilty over it. Just my two cents.
Bacon wrote:Imho you shouldn't really feel bad. You sent two messages over a few days checking to see if she was interested and then quit when it seemed like she wasn't. Even when I'm struggling with some bad stuff, it doesn't take me 5 days to respond to a message. Working 6 days a week, death in the family, "miserable texter" are all probably just excuses. If she wanted to text you, she would have. She shouldn't be salty over it and you shouldn't feel guilty over it. Just my two cents.
u prolly right her messages smelled of excuses. i don't feel awful but it's like. wtf. okay then. im salty. she's salty. her behavior has been baffling throughout the entire thing. leaving in 9 days tho so who cares