Do you have/want children?

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Do you have children?

Yes.
4
18%
No, but I do want some day.
9
41%
No, not interested.
4
18%
Not sure?
5
23%
 
Total votes: 22

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Lets face it, they are everywhere. And they are the future yo.

Do you have of your own?
If not, do you want? how many?

I'm also interested why you do or do not want children?

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I expect to adopt one or two at some point in my life. My current mindset is, that I don't want any of my own.£

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Location: Houston, Texas
Teddy and I are gonna adopt little Syrian kids as soon as he pulls that restraining order.

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I want to have kids someday. Preferably two girls.

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Fuck no. I don't even want to get married.

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Joined: August 2012
do 35 cats count as children?
idk maybe one day

the_red_ninja wrote:
January 17th, 2018, 1:52 pm
Do you have of your own?
If not, do you want? how many?
do we get bulk discounts?

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Short answer: No. But sometimes, for brief moments I feel like it's something I should consider.

Long answer:
I don't know if I would want to make the decision to bring more humans into this world. If I had a choice I would choose not to exist. I still question why did my parents have me. I'm their second child. Why wasn't one child enough for them? Maybe I only question it because I'm not happy with my life for various reasons which is don't belong to this topic.

I feel like most people in my society think of children as those cute little things that they want to have in their life, or having children is something they must do automatically without thinking much about it. Sometimes I feel like they forget that those children will grow up someday. Those children have needs and desires, they have dreams of their own.

Also, I still haven't figured out if it's selfless as it seems or extremely selfish to have children.

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Nope. I used to really like kids then somewhere along the way I just stopped.

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I want to have one day. one set of twins please🙏

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