Thanks for the support. I know we all post on a somewhat anonymous forum, but ya'll have made it feel like a community. I just needed to vent a little. My life is a shitshow rn (ex: me not being able to see my mom before her upcoming BM transplant). I guess I'll just cross my fingers and hope for the best. And I might take you guys up on the offer to talk.
That's the best thing out of it. It hurts, surely, I cannot even imagine but it's better to find out now when you're simply dating than when it becomes something more serious.
Another plus, is that there is a person that's right for you out there somewhere. Whenever you feel this was the one after a break up and you "lost" her, sooner or later you'll find someone who's a better fit and will treat you better and who you'll treat even better.
It's true that free speech is not absolute, has never been, and you could make the case that it should not be, but to equate an indiscriminating defense of free speech to Nazi talking point is frankly ingenuous, and ignores the history of liberal organizations fighting for the free speech rights of marginalized groups. The mere fact that Nazis sometimes co-opt this free speech defense to spout bile does not mean we should let them own it.