NolanFans collective diary of angry venting

[fenwayconnor]

she's not only gorgeous she's amazing in every way, i love spending time with her i love her god dammit

Hmm that's quite a pickle. But anybody that brings a friend on the date and makes you pay for all three just does not seem like someone considerate enough for you to waste time with. I know it's hard to accept though probably if she's so amazing in other ways. But rudeness like that kinda negates the rest, y'know? You wouldn't want to date a beautiful, smart girl who's rude all the time would you?

Exactly.

@ lionsaulter... Yeah it sucks, especially being in love with her and all. But i'm quite sure that you deserve better than dealing with situations like that. I loved, and still do love my ex-fiance, but people keep telling me their are other people out there who I will end up loving even more and will be even happier with. Hard to believe, but the same applies to you mate.

[lionsaulter]

Hmm that's quite a pickle. But anybody that brings a friend on the date and makes you pay for all three just does not seem like someone considerate enough for you to waste time with. I know it's hard to accept though probably if she's so amazing in other ways. But rudeness like that kinda negates the rest, y'know? You wouldn't want to date a beautiful, smart girl who's rude all the time would you?

She just thought it was ok to bring her along, but yeah making me pay her friend's meal (The most expensive one) was kinda rude

Exactly.

@ lionsaulter... Yeah it sucks, especially being in love with her and all. But i'm quite sure that you deserve better than dealing with situations like that. I loved, and still do love my ex-fiance, but people keep telling me their are other people out there who I will end up loving even more and will be even happier with. Hard to believe, but the same applies to you mate.

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i guess you're right, thanks guys, shit i feel like Tom trying to forget Summer

[NoMoreDeadCops]

Hmm that's quite a pickle. But anybody that brings a friend on the date and makes you pay for all three just does not seem like someone considerate enough for you to waste time with. I know it's hard to accept though probably if she's so amazing in other ways. But rudeness like that kinda negates the rest, y'know? You wouldn't want to date a beautiful, smart girl who's rude all the time would you?

She just thought it was ok to bring her along, but yeah making me pay her friend's meal (The most expensive one) was kinda rude

Exactly.

@ lionsaulter... Yeah it sucks, especially being in love with her and all. But i'm quite sure that you deserve better than dealing with situations like that. I loved, and still do love my ex-fiance, but people keep telling me their are other people out there who I will end up loving even more and will be even happier with. Hard to believe, but the same applies to you mate.

i guess you're right, thanks guys, shit i feel like Tom trying to forget Summer

Sometimes life can imitate art in lame ways too huh? I feel your pain but even though I don't know you personally, I bet you money you'll get through it painlessly if you approach the situation logically and go with your gut feelings.

[lionsaulter]

She just thought it was ok to bring her along, but yeah making me pay her friend's meal (The most expensive one) was kinda rude


i guess you're right, thanks guys, shit i feel like Tom trying to forget Summer

Sometimes life can imitate art in lame ways too huh? I feel your pain but even though I don't know you personally, I bet you money you'll get through it painlessly if you approach the situation logically and go with your gut feelings.

damn....

[NoMoreDeadCops]

Sometimes life can imitate art in lame ways too huh? I feel your pain but even though I don't know you personally, I bet you money you'll get through it painlessly if you approach the situation logically and go with your gut feelings.

damn....

What's wrong?

[lionsaulter]

damn....

What's wrong?

should i give up on her?

[fenwayconnor]

What's wrong?

should i give up on her?

I wouldn't say completely, but just keep your options open man. Don't put all your eggs in one basket so to speak, its less heartbreak until it actually does work out with someone amazing.

[lionsaulter]

should i give up on her?

I wouldn't say completely, but just keep your options open man. Don't put all your eggs in one basket so to speak, its less heartbreak until it actually does work out with someone amazing.

Yeah you're right, thanks

[xWhereAmI?]

What has pissed me off lately is coming to the clear realization that I have douche bag friends who make fun of me ALL the time and I never really cared about it until now. I realized that their ridicule has gone on for way to long and I shouldn't deal with it. The thing is that since I have been good friends with them for a long time I just cannot stop being their friend. I don't think they really mean it, but recently it has gotten pretty bad. I used to not care because it was just fooling around, but like I have said, it is getting out of hand. I don't know what to do. Should I just stop talking to them for a while or should I honestly and deeply ask them to cut it off?

[the_red_ninja]

What has pissed me off lately is coming to the clear realization that I have douche bag friends who make fun of me ALL the time and I never really cared about it until now. I realized that their ridicule has gone on for way to long and I shouldn't deal with it. The thing is that since I have been good friends with them for a long time I just cannot stop being their friend. I don't think they really mean it, but recently it has gotten pretty bad. I used to not care because it was just fooling around, but like I have said, it is getting out of hand. I don't know what to do. Should I just stop talking to them for a while or should I honestly and deeply ask them to cut it off?

You should definitely let them know that the joke is old now and that it is indeed a sensitive spot. They might not be aware of that, even if they have known you for long. If they are good friends, they will at least ease up on you.